Whether you’re working full-time, part-time, or running your own business, having a job while raising a family is no easy feat. For those always striving for the right work–life balance, here are a few tips to help make your day-to-day more manageable and enjoyable.
Make a list of your priorities and stick to them. Determine what tasks need to be accomplished and when. Make a note of upcoming meetings or deadlines in a way that can help you keep track of your upcoming responsibilities. If you tend to lose track of time, it could be helpful to set calendar reminders on your phone, alerting you to these obligations.
For those who work remotely, it can be difficult to separate your work life from your home life. Creating a dedicated office space can help make this separation clearer while optimizing your productivity during the workweek. Utilizing a room with a door that can be kept shut during work hours can be useful for letting your family know when you will be on calls or when interruptions need to be minimized.
Some ways to optimize your space include:
Staggering your schedules doesn’t leave much room for downtime with your partner, but it could be a short-term solution as you balance working from home and caring for young children.
If you can, try waking up at different times in the morning to better work around your child’s schedule. Maybe you can wake up early and finish up any to-do items you have due that day, and then your partner can sleep in late. Then, you can go to bed earlier, while your partner works later into the night. It’s not ideal, but it allows you and your partner to get work finished while also catering to your children’s needs.
While there are going to be interruptions, try to maintain structure in your daily schedule. When it comes to your family’s schedule, sometimes keeping it simple is best. If you can, try to keep the same routine week-by-week or day-by-day, as this can help you, your partner, and your children feel comfortable and organized even when things are uncertain around you.
Remember to stop working once the day is over, whether that means leaving work at a reasonable time or walking away from your home office.
If you’re a team leader or manager, consider whether there might be some things you can take off your plate and delegate to others. While it can be difficult to let things go, doing so is important for the sake of balance. If there are tasks someone else on your team can handle, don’t be afraid to ask for help or assign them out.
Communication is more important than ever when striving to put your life in balance. Miscommunication or a lack of communication altogether can cause time-consuming or costly problems. Be transparent, upfront, and open to regular chats with your team members. When everything’s able to run smoothly, you can feel good about putting more time and effort into things outside of the office.
Your day is rarely going to go as planned, especially when you are juggling family life with a full-time career. If something goes awry, it’s okay to accept your mistakes, move on, and figure out what you did wrong, so you can prevent it from happening again.
Did your child forget to turn in an assignment? It’s going to happen from time to time. Acknowledge the mistake, help your child accept the consequences, and keep moving forward.
You can’t do it all. And while it’s hard for many to say no, there are times when you just have to. This goes hand in hand with having the ability to delegate. Rushing to complete an assignment or cutting corners to meet a deadline won’t do anybody any favors.
Also, as much as you’d love to attend that playdate with another mom, but it’s adding more stress than it’s worth, it’s okay to say no or reschedule. There’s a fine line to balance when it comes to managing your daily household routine, your children’s schedule, and your work life.
If you’re spending a lot of time working, you may feel as though you are not giving enough to your family. If your children need extra attention, then you may feel that your job is starting to suffer. Understand that now is not the time to be perfect, and it’s okay to cut yourself some slack. If you burn both ends for too long, the long-term damage could be even greater.
We know it’s a balancing act, and some days you’re going to feel as though you can’t get your head above water, while other days you feel as though you have it all together. These tips can help moms looking to maintain their professional careers while raising a family. If you'd like to outsource the financial piece of your life, our Team stands ready to assist. Contact us today for a conversation to learn more.
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